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		<title>Attraction</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/10/31/attraction/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The power of attraction.
A world without attraction is nothing but a messed up Tower of Babylon.
It&#8217;s one of the few genuine things that happen to us and take hold of our actions and thoughts, direct and give meaning to what we do, make us go through hell, come back, take a nap and then climb [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=521&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Epistola ultimei luni</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/epistola-ultimei-luni/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 18:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[ceea ce sunt]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/?p=510</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Mi-am inchis trecutul intr-o epistola. Nestiute, nevolnice
versurile s-au ferecat in ele insele.
Ascunse, subintelesurile si-au sters lacrimile si s-au retras
ca niste molii hipnotizate de lumina tacerii.
Nu ai cautat sa ma citesti ca o poezie. Probabil ca
ai gasit mai curand o carte deschisa si,
neavand cultura blandetii,
m-ai luat si mi-ai stalcit gandurile
in timp ce eu icneam de durere
ca [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=510&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The poor and the consumer</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/10/25/the-poor-and-the-consumer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 17:59:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[People love differences 
And most of all, they love those differences that become symbols of power, influence, social desirability and status. It is natural that in selfish competitive societies the dominant strategy would be to rule out the others by proving that you are not only different, but that your difference has something that anyone [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=505&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Foreigner</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/10/19/foreigner/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 19:29:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[what I feel]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what defines me]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/?p=497</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I have got to take a little time,
A little time to think things over.
I can&#8217;t go further. One step into it and I&#8217;ll break. Please wait for me. Even if you will forget everything about me, just know this: I have to stop now and do it my way. On my own. I&#8217;m still strange. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=497&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Battlefields</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 17:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/?p=495</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Lets just say we&#8217;re sailing in parallel universes somehow represented by a similar line on your world map and mine. The line is so thin you can&#8217;t decide where to stand, where I stand and where we should be.

The potential controversy of our relationship, when we first meet each other, as strangers, crawls on your [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=495&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>your touch</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/10/15/your-touch/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 17:18:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/?p=486</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Touching is more than a nonverbal signal
Touching is the explicit content of our unconscious thoughts; especially the thoughts that we try to hide.
You touching me is mind blowing. It takes me to another dimension. It&#8217;s all about who we really are and the relationship created between us. 
What makes your touch so powerful?
Usually one cannot [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=486&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Restlessness</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/10/12/restlessness/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 20:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/?p=479</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I feel like a risk-maniac on relapse sometimes, except that risk to me is pushing the limits of proper interpersonal behavior. I&#8217;m just fed up with &#8220;what you should do/what you should be like&#8221;. I stick to the common sense until it ceases to pleasure my cognitive senses. 
If I were a feeling
&#8230; I would [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=479&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>If you go through hell&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/09/29/if-you-go-through-hell/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 16:37:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Winston Churchill said, then&#8230; keep going.
So what&#8217;s hell? For someone I know hell is not feeling the warmth of love because the beloved is too far away and nothing can kill that pain.
For some other person hell could be allot of doubt, hopelessness, imagined or real problems, disbelief, grief or a great loss.
I know hell [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=467&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The THING behind it all</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/09/28/the-thing-behind-it-all/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Sep 2009 19:52:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/?p=464</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever realized that emotions can drive you safely
&#8230;towards something you wouldn&#8217;t have achieved otherwise? Do you remember when you did something because you had so much anger and hate deep in your heart, that the only thing you could do to survive those stabbing emotions was to focus on something that you wanted [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=464&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Groupthink</title>
		<link>http://reflexivethougths.wordpress.com/2009/09/27/groupthink/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 13:25:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>katchja</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s not that it kills us in time, it&#8217;s just that we like it
In a group you don&#8217;t have to know everything. If the group has a functional purpose, such as that of being a good sales team in the sales department, you can depend on one another. I mean, John can be good with [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=reflexivethougths.wordpress.com&blog=4341340&post=462&subd=reflexivethougths&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
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